How To Not Let Circumstances Beat You!

Puravida Fitness • July 28, 2023

How To Not Let Circumstances Beat You!

An alligator is swimming in a pond with a lily pad in its mouth.

One of my old mentors used to say "your original intent was to drain the swamp but now you find yourself up to your armpits in alligators."


Can you relate?


I know I can.


In fact last Tuesday was one of those days.


I woke up with a great attitude. I was going to "kill it."


I had my daily plan ready to go and all my objectives outlined. This was going to be the day I "drained my swamp" and took care of some 'messes.'


One of those "messes" was dealing with the IRS. They had sent me a notice regarding some documentation they needed. 


I thought, simple, right? I keep good records, I file my taxes...no problem. 


Not so much.


When I went to print the tax returns they wanted, none of the printers worked. And, as I was running up and down the stairs from a printer that worked, I tweaked my knee.


After way too much time, I finally got the documents printed and I started thinking about what else was in the swamp.


I had to "referee" between people involved in my mom's care plan who were not seeing eye to eye and also deal with an unresolved insurance claim issue that needed attention.


I decided to hold off on draining those 'messes' because I still hadn't done my workout and I wanted to get it done before my next client or it wasn't happening. 


A voice in my head told me to skip my workout and let these things dominate my day. For a moment I was tempted but I went ahead and did my workout anyway.


It wasn't a "kick ass" workout and no PRs were set but it got done.


I felt accomplished afterwards.


Why? 


Because I did not give into my circumstances. Yes there were a lot of things pulling me in different directions but I did not let them dominate my day.


Since my workout is a BIG ROCK I was resolved to do it. Not just to stay in shape physically but also to keep me grounded mentally (a.k.a. sane).


It would have been really easy to give into these distractions and get off track. But I didn't. This was my BIG WIN for the day. 


You see, too often people never get ahead because they let their circumstances determine their course each day instead of the other way around.


The first challenge that comes up cancels the workout and/or the eating plan goes by the wayside.


If you are going to win in life, you have to rise above the distractions in life and stay on course. You have to do the things that really matter to you.


That is one reason I love fitness. It has taught me how to overcome circumstances and stay on course.


When I set fitness goals, there is always resistance that life throws at me to knock me off course. But I choose not to let them and always end up following through.


This has spilled over into other areas of my life and helped me develop the discipline needed to see things through in ALL areas of my life.


Getting a WIN in one area of life creates WINS in other areas of life.


Do you need a win?


Fitness is a great place to get that win.


I've seen several people not just lose weight and gain strength working with us, they also lose excuses and find discipline.


Let's get you that win.


The first step is to click the blue button below and set up a SUCCESS SESSION with me so we can map out a game plan to get you the win you want and deserve.


Let's go get it!


Erik Peacock

September 29, 2026
Back at my old job, I used to take yoga classes. One instructor said something that stuck with me: despite years of yoga, he could never seem to make his hamstrings more flexible. At the time, that sounded strange. Like most people, I had been taught that if a muscle feels tight, the answer is to stretch it more. But what if there is more to flexibility than stretching? The training that changed how I coach In 2010, I was introduced to Z-Health, a brain-based approach to movement. Some of the drills looked almost too simple, yet I saw people move better after doing them. I enrolled in two certification courses, and what I learned changed how I program workouts and help clients. The idea that stayed with me was that movement depends on communication between the brain and the body. When a joint feels uncomfortable or a movement feels threatening, people may tense up or guard that area. Repeating a stretch alone may not address what is limiting the movement. Today, I look beyond the spot that feels tight. I pay attention to how the joints move, how a client responds to a drill, and whether that drill helps them feel and move better. What works for one person may not work for another. Here are four lessons I use in my coaching: A tight muscle may be doing more than resisting a stretch. Discomfort or a sense of instability can change how a person moves and recruits muscles. Joint movement matters. Improving how a joint moves can sometimes make an exercise feel stronger or more comfortable. The nervous system is part of flexibility. How safe and controlled a movement feels may affect how much range of motion a person can use. Test, then retest. We try an appropriate drill, check how the movement feels afterward, and adjust the plan based on the response. Stretching can still be useful. I simply don’t assume it is the only answer every time someone feels stiff. What this looks like in a session Just today, I worked with a woman who came in dealing with a significant low back issue. We used gentle movement drills rather than stretching her back. By the end of the session, her range of motion had improved, and she said she felt and moved better than when she arrived. That is one person’s experience, not a promise that the same drills will resolve every back problem. It is a reminder of why I assess each client and pay attention to their response instead of handing everyone the same flexibility routine. The transformation closest to my heart My dad showed me what better movement can mean outside the gym. At 80, he had back surgery and became so weak afterward that he needed a walker. Hunting was one of his passions, and it looked as though he might lose the independence to do it. We worked on rebuilding his movement and strength using the principles I had learned. That October, he was walking with a walker. By April, he was hiking in the Black Hills, where he shot a wild turkey and even crawled under a fence to retrieve it. You can watch my dad’s story here . Mobility is about living your life At Puravida Fitness, our tagline is “Transforming Bodies and Lives.” Sometimes that means losing weight or building muscle. Sometimes it means having the strength, flexibility, and mobility to keep doing the things you love. Those are some of my favorite transformations. Helping someone move with more confidence, regain independence, or return to a favorite activity is about quality of life and longevity. To me, that is priceless. If you’re looking for a personal trainer who considers the whole person, we’d love to help. Puravida Fitness is a gym and health club in Lakeville focused on fitness and wellness for real life. We work with people from Farmington, Prior Lake, Burnsville, Apple Valley, Savage, New Market, and Elko. Learn more about Puravida Fitness .
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